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MPH Loss & Grief Workshop Feedback

20/10/2015

 
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Margaret Alve presented during the Mary Potter Hospice Loss & Grief Workshop on Children and Young Person’s Grief - September 2015

Comments offered by participants following her presentation were as follows:

  • Brilliant presenter – so knowledgeable on her topic. So much to learn – could take a whole day. Use of video debatable as not NZ resource.
  • The interaction was so relaxed and welcomed. Thoroughly enjoyed the openness.
  • Good to get an understanding of how children deal with grief.
  • Very useful – very active presentation. Gave me a lot of ideas about children and young persons grief – I had no idea about their feelings/emotions.
  • Easy to listen to and very relevant. Loved the song.
  • Really helpful, lots of insight into the thought processes of young people.
  • Thoroughly enjoyed session but too short! I felt she had a lot of knowledge and wisdom that we could learn from.
  • Thank you Margaret, it was good to hear your passion, and the resources you used were helpful.

Of the 10 who gave a written response about Margaret's presentation, it was rated:
Very Useful – 9
Useful – 1​

​CONTACT MARGARET to enquire about a presentation for your group.

Because U Matter Partners with Skylight and Victim Support

14/5/2015

 
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Mt Taranaki after a stormy night!
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NZ Fire Service National Training Facility - Venue for Rotorua Victim Support Training
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BUM's Margaret Alve Addresses Victim Support Volunteers in New Plymouth
Because U Matter has completed two recent training seminars with Victim Support in Rotorua (March) and New Plymouth (May), on behalf of Skylight. These seminars have addressed issues of grief, loss and bereavement with a focus on issues arising from suicide. BUM's Margaret Alve - a professional counsellor and supervisor - specialises in working with individuals and groups facing issues of bereavement, grief, loss and change.

in association with Victim Support and Skylight

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When People Don’t Act Like You Thought They Would

16/7/2012

 
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Look for the 'Duck' Image on P.8 of CanTalk Winter 2012
Margaret has an article in the Winter 2012 edition of CanTalk - The Wellington Cancer Society newsletter. You can read it on page 8 adjacent the duck image - see left.

The article begins, "When people get diagnosed with cancer they naturally want to turn to those they love and are familiar with. They want to be able to share and depend on them, feel their love and support. It can be very hard to take when this support fails to occur...."

Interested in reading more? 

Visit: http://tinyurl.com/CanTalkWinter2012

I Work With Groups

8/4/2012

 
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I Enjoy Working with Groups
I am available to work with groups seeking assistance around a number of issues. These may include:
Chronic & serious illness in the workplace, organisation or community
Engaging with change
Loss & grief issues
Team building
The challenge of self-care for people helpers....

Team building and group dynamics are among issues I have addressed with groups. I currently co-facilitate the "Heartsong" Wellington Bereaved Parents support Group. A particular passion is helping groups appreciate how 'rituals' help people to make meaning out of their life experiences.  

My group work fees are $120+ per hour for businesses; $100+ per hour for NGO and Community groups.

Contact me to discuss possibilities for your business or organisation. 

Margaret 

BEYOND WORDS - Grieving when your child has died

28/3/2012

 
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View the Promotional Brochure
by Andrew Thompson (Starship Hospital and Auckland University) and Tricia Irving Hendry (Skylight Trust).

This new NZ book that has been launched this week by the Skylight Trust.

"The death of a child is a heartfelt experience like no other.
It is a deep grief experience that goes beyond words."

The loss affects bereaved parents emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually and socially. It makes more demands on them than most others ever realise.

Many bereaved parents say that the only people who can ever genuinely begin to understand what it’s like for them are other bereaved parents. Hearing from others who have ‘been there’ can make all the difference. For this reason, Beyond Words is a handbook that features the honest words, perspectives and suggestions of many bereaved parents. It also offers useful information about managing grief, support options and ideas that may be helpful on the grief journey.

It is comforting, encouraging, informative and practical.

It will also provide understanding and insights to professionals and others seeking to effectively support bereaved parents.

You can buy a copy from Skylight Trust for NZ$26 plus p&p.

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    Margaret Alve
    PG Cert. Hlth. Sc., Dip. Counselling, Cert. Supervision,  MNZCCA. 
    Margaret is employed part time as a Counsellor and Facilitator with the Wellington Division of the Cancer Society in Newtown. She is on the Faculty of the Skylight Trust as a Professional Presenter in group support and training. Through her support service, Because U Matter, Margaret offers Professional Supervision & Counselling and Group Training by arrangement.

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